Couples Coaching — CCRCoaching

Your Relationship Isn’t Broken.
It’s Been Through a Lot.

We help couples who feel disconnected, stuck in the same arguments, and like they’re more roommates than partners — by getting underneath the patterns to heal the identity wounds and unmet needs that are quietly driving them apart, so they can build a marriage rooted in love, not fear.

“Two people can’t build something new until they both stop running on old wounds.”

Most couples don’t have a communication problem. They have two people with unhealed wounds trying to love each other through the pain. Through the Shalom Awakening Method, we help you both heal at the root — so your relationship can become a place of real wholeness, harmony, and the kind of peace God always intended for your home.

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No pressure. No pitch. Just an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to go. • Response within 24 hours.

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“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”

— Colossians 3:14

“You don’t fall out of love. You lose yourselves — and then you lose each other.”

What really stands out is how practical and real it is. They focus on emotional clarity and communication in a way that actually makes sense and feels doable in everyday life. If you want your relationships to feel easier, more connected, and less complicated — I’d definitely recommend them.

James P. ·  Friend & Observer

Who We Help

Does Any of This
Sound Like You Two?

You don’t have to keep cycling through the same pain. This is exactly who we were called to coach.

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You Keep Having the Same Fight

Different topic, same argument. Same tone, same outcome, same distance afterward. You both know the cycle — but knowing it hasn’t been enough to break it. Something deeper is driving it.

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You Feel More Like Roommates Than Partners

Life is busy. Kids, work, obligations. You function well together — but the intimacy, the spark, the real connection has quietly faded. You miss each other even when you’re in the same room.

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Trust Was Broken

Infidelity. Emotional betrayal. Secrets. You want to rebuild — but you don’t know if it’s possible, or where to even start. You need a guide who’s walked this road and knows the way through.

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You Love Each Other But Can’t Communicate

Conversations escalate or shut down. One of you withdraws, the other pursues. Words come out wrong. You feel unheard and misunderstood — and so does your partner. You’re both exhausted.

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Your Faith Isn’t Holding You Together the Way You Expected

You’re both believers — but faith hasn’t fixed the disconnect. Maybe shame, unmet needs, or different spiritual languages are creating distance instead of unity. You want God at the center, but don’t know how to get there.

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You’re Ready to Do the Work Together

You haven’t given up. You’re here — which means something in both of you still believes this is worth fighting for. That’s exactly where transformation starts.

Yes, This Is Us — Let’s Talk

No pressure. No pitch. Just an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to go. • Response within 24 hours.

You are not the only couple who has felt this way. The distance, the same arguments, the quiet fear that maybe this is just how it is — other couples have sat exactly where you’re sitting. And they found their way back to each other. You don’t have to figure this out alone.

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Free Assessment • 4 Minutes • Your Perspective Matters

Where Does Your
Marriage Actually Stand?

The Shalom Awakening Assessment for Couples

Dimension 1

Connection

Dimension 2

Communication

Dimension 3

Trust & Safety

Dimension 4

Shared Foundation

Most struggling marriages aren't broken — they're stuck in the same unresolved cycle. This assessment maps exactly where your relationship is across four dimensions, and shows you what needs to shift first. Take it from your honest perspective. You can invite your spouse to take it separately at the end. Honest answers get honest results.

Free • 4 Minutes • Personalized Result Take the Assessment →
4 minutes Private & confidential Take it separately as a couple 100% Free

The Real Stakes

What Changes. What Doesn’t.
And What It Costs to Stay Where You Are.

Where you are now

Before the work

  • × The same argument — different day, same outcome, same distance after
  • × Loving each other but feeling completely alone in the marriage
  • × One of you shutting down, the other chasing — and neither of you winning
  • × Functioning as a team but not connecting as a couple
  • × Staying together but slowly drifting apart

Where you can be

After the work

  • ✓ You finally understand each other — not just the behavior, but the wound underneath it
  • ✓ The cycle breaks — because you’ve healed what was driving it
  • ✓ You rebuild trust in a way that actually holds this time
  • ✓ You love from fullness instead of fear, need, or survival
  • ✓ Your home becomes what it was always meant to be — a place of Shalom

The Method

The 3-Phase Shalom
Awakening Method

We don’t teach you to manage each other better. We help you both heal at the root — because two healed people build something new.

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Shalom — Peace
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More than a word — a promise

Most people translate Shalom as “peace.”
In Hebrew, it means something far richer:
wholeness, completeness, flourishing, and harmony.

Not the absence of conflict — the presence of everything God intended for your life together.

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Wholeness
Nothing missing. Nothing broken. The full restoration of who God made you to be.
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Completeness
Not lacking or fragmented. Fully integrated — spirit, soul, and body aligned.
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Flourishing
Not just surviving. Thriving in every area God created you to live in.
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Harmony
Right relationship — with God, within yourself, and with the people you love.

The three phases of healing — for each of you, and for your relationship

Phase 1
Awaken to God
Shalom with God  ·  Identity

A healthy relationship starts with two people who each know who they are. When both of you understand your identity as fully loved, fully accepted children of God, you stop looking to each other to fill what only God can fill. Love stops being desperate. It becomes a gift you give freely — because you’re already full.

Why Phase 1? Most conflict isn’t incompatibility — it’s two people who don’t know their worth, trying to get it from each other.
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Phase 2
Awaken to Self
Shalom with Self  ·  Inner Healing

Most arguments aren’t really about what you’re fighting about. They’re about old wounds getting activated — shame, fear of abandonment, unprocessed grief, unmet childhood needs. Phase 2 is where both of you do the individual inner work that changes the entire dynamic of your relationship. You can’t give to each other what you haven’t yet healed within yourself.

Why Phase 2? Individual healing is what creates relational change. Communication tools without inner work always leads back to the same patterns.
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Phase 3
Awaken to Others
Shalom with Others  ·  Relationships

When two healed people come together, the relationship itself transforms. Phase 3 is where connection deepens, communication becomes natural, and conflict becomes a doorway to understanding rather than a wall. Your home becomes a place of Shalom — wholeness, harmony, and the kind of love that actually lasts.

Why Phase 3? Shalom in marriage isn’t built on technique — it’s built on two healed people who can finally love from a whole place.

“Whole in God. Whole within. Whole with others.
That’s Shalom.”

The Process

The Awaken Within
Process

Inside every phase of Shalom, this is the practical framework we use — session by session — to move each of you from awareness to real, lasting change together.

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Step One
Surface
Recognize

Most couples arrive with a list of the things that aren’t working — but they’re usually describing the symptoms, not the source. The first step is to gently surface what’s really happening: what each person is feeling, what’s being triggered, and what the patterns actually are.

Why Surface? Real change requires honest seeing — not blame, just clarity. When both of you can see the pattern, everything opens up.
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Step Two
Source
Understand Why

Every repeated argument has a deeper root. Every emotional reaction is telling a story about something older. In this step, we help both of you understand why — what old wounds are being activated, what unmet needs are driving the conflict, and where each of your patterns actually came from.

Why Source? When both of you understand the root — not just the behavior — compassion replaces frustration. That’s what changes a marriage.
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Step Three
Steward
Choose

Understanding without action stays in the room. This step is about choosing together — new responses, new agreements, new ways of showing up for each other. You steward the healing you’ve found and build the kind of marriage that reflects the love God designed you both to have.

Why Steward? A good marriage isn’t just healed — it’s built. Every day you show up whole is an act of stewardship for your family.
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The Map

The 3-Phase Shalom Method

Shows where you’re both going —
Identity → Healing → Relationship

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The Compass

The Awaken Within Process

Moves each of you forward —
Surface → Source → Steward

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The Result

Lasting Transformation

Two healed people building something that lasts — Shalom in your home

“You can’t build something new together while you’re both still living in the rubble of old wounds.”

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“Shalom isn’t just the absence of conflict.
It’s the presence of everything God intended —
wholeness, harmony, and the kind of love your home was always meant to hold.”

— Brent & Raine, Christ Centered Relationship Coaching

Coaching Packages

Where Do You
Want to Start?

Most couples begin with The Shalom Awakening. It’s where the real work — and the real change — happens together.

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Start With a Free Couples Discovery Session 45 Min — No Pressure

Before anything else, let’s all talk — together. A free, no-obligation 45-minute session to understand where you both are, what’s keeping you stuck, and find the right fit. Pricing is discussed personally on this call.

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Entry Point

THE FOUNDATION

Start Here If You’re Not Sure

Not ready to commit to the full journey together? Start here. One month, four joint sessions, focused on the one thing everything else is built on — your shared identity in Christ.

1 Month 4 Sessions
  • → You’ll both understand why you keep ending up in the same place — and what’s actually driving it
  • → You’ll stop blaming each other and start seeing the real source of your disconnection
  • → You’ll have a shared language for your emotions that creates understanding instead of conflict
  • → You’ll feel less alone in your marriage — even in the hard moments
  • → You’ll know exactly where your healing journey needs to go next — together

💬 Pricing discussed on your free call

Book Your Free Discovery Call →
MOST RECOMMENDED
Full Method

THE SHALOM AWAKENING

The Full Transformation Experience Together

Three months of joint coaching through all three phases of the Shalom Awakening Method. This is the program that creates lasting change for both of you — not just awareness, but a completely different way of showing up in your marriage and in every relationship that surrounds it.

3 Months 12 Sessions
  • → You’ll break the cycle — the same argument won’t have the same ending anymore
  • → You’ll understand each other’s wounds instead of being triggered by them
  • → You’ll rebuild trust and emotional safety in a way that actually holds
  • → You’ll learn to love from fullness instead of fear, need, or survival
  • → You’ll communicate in a way that creates connection instead of distance
  • → You’ll build the kind of marriage that feels like home

💬 Pricing discussed on your free call

Book Your Free Discovery Call →

🙏 We believe in accessibility. Scholarship spots are available for couples who genuinely cannot afford coaching. Ask about it on your discovery call — no shame, no judgment.

Testimonials

Real Relationships.
Real Transformation.

★★★★★

“I have had the privilege of working with Brent and Raine for several years. What sets them apart is that they don’t just teach about healthy, Christ-like behaviors in relationships — they genuinely live them every day.

They have an incredible gift for recognizing toxic and painful patterns that quietly destroy connection and self-worth. With compassion and clarity, they guide you through breaking free from the negative cycles that leave you feeling stuck, unloved, and unworthy. Their love-based approach to coaching is deeply healing. It has revitalized my soul, restored my hope, and completely transformed how I show up in my relationships.

Brent and Raine’s coaching is truly inspiring and life-changing. I can’t recommend them highly enough.”

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Branon M. Coaching Client
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“I’ve had the chance to see how Brent and Raine approach relationships — and what really stands out is how practical and real it is.

What I appreciate most is how their approach helps take some of the pressure and confusion out of relationships. Instead of things feeling so hard or frustrating, they give you tools that make connection feel more natural and a lot less like a constant struggle.

If you’re someone who wants your relationships to feel easier, more connected, and less complicated, I’d definitely recommend checking them out.”

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James P. Friend & Observer
Brent and Raine McClellan — Christ Centered Relationship Coaches
10+ Years of Personal Transformation

About Brent & Raine

We Don’t Just Coach Couples.
We Are One.

Brent and Raine McClellan don’t coach from a textbook — they coach from lived experience. Between them, they’ve walked through divorce, heartbreak, deep personal healing, and the hard, beautiful work of building a relationship that’s genuinely rooted in something bigger than chemistry.

They know what it’s like to want connection but not know how to get there. To love your partner and still feel completely alone. To argue about the dishes when what you’re really fighting about is fear, unmet needs, and old wounds neither of you knew how to name.

Coaching with Brent and Raine isn’t about learning techniques to manage your partner better. It’s about both of you healing at the root level — individually and together — so that love becomes something you give from fullness, not need.

  • ✓ Faith-based & trauma-informed couples coaching
  • ✓ Rooted in identity healing, not conflict management
  • ✓ Safe, judgment-free space for both of you
  • ✓ Practical tools for real-life connection
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Ready to
Build Something Real Together?

“The strongest thing a couple can do is decide they’re worth the work — together.”

Fill out the form and we’ll be in touch within 24 hours to schedule your free couples discovery call. No pressure, no sales tactics — just an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to go.

“You don’t have to have it all together to start. You just have to start together.”

✉ brent.ccrcoaching@gmail.com

✆ (385) 831-3099

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The 3-Phase Shalom Awakening Method

Phase 1: Awaken to God  ·  Phase 2: Awaken to Self  ·  Phase 3: Awaken to Others

Whole in God. Whole within. Whole with others. That’s Shalom.

The Awaken Within Process

Surface (Recognize)  ·  Source (Understand)  ·  Steward (Choose)

The map and the compass — working together to bring lasting change.

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